Dan is the type of guy many Christians think of when they hear the word homosexuality. What do you mean? I stumbled across this book as I was desperately searching for relevant Christian resources for this topic, and I'm so glad I bought this book! I know. Mr. Trump's new financial disclosure states that the company he created for the NFT project, CIC Digital LLC, had between $100,001 and $1 million in income. The fact is, we SHOULD be reading books like this. There's no alternative for. The Bible says that they are an abomination!". However, he gives context to this sin by noting that ALL people, especially all Christians engage in sin (lust, adultery, greed, slander, etc.) Preston Sprinkle (PhD, Aberdeen) is a teacher, speaker, and New York Times bestselling author. People who have been raped into lesbianism, and people who have been born with same-sex attraction. A Great Guide for Understanding LGBT Questions, Reviewed in the United States on July 26, 2021. However you feel about homosexuality, the Bible, or whatever, this truth is. Although his stance is fairly clear (he states it upfront in the first few pages), he always points back to the fact that this is not some abstract ISSUE, it is about PEOPLE. is sort of a catchall identifier for everyone else who feels marginalized based on their sexuality. Good Condition. Gray, neither black nor white Gray, neither dark nor bright Gray, the color of choice . He is a, bestselling author who's written more than adozen books, including, Living in a Gray World, Scandalous Grace, Non-violence. (There could be some bad answers out there, but no bad questions.) So let's drop the "lifestyle" lingo. Living a life without facing pain and loss is living in an "artificial world," a life without God. And they have stories. We've got to stop talking about issues and start talking about human beings. Some questions have simple answers, but many don't. When many Christians hear the term gay, they immediately think of sexual immorality. Queer is sort of a catchall identifier for everyone else who feels marginalized based on their sexuality. A feisty, angry, church-hating loudmouth who loves to fire off mean comments on blogs and Twitter. When he came out to his parents about being gay, they told him he was an abomination and kicked him out of the house. The Bible says that they are an abomination!". When many Christians hear the term, they immediately think of sexual immorality. Featured. There has to be a better way, and there is . So let's have an honest dialogue about a very tough topic. He then apologized, released her, and warned her that he'd kill her if she told anyone about what had happened. One where hard questions are raised and genuine answers are given. Since then, we have helped thousands of families take control of their food source and installed over a thousand Tower Gardens in commercial farms around the world. But a transgender woman identifies as a man (regardless of what their body looks like) and is attracted to women. No, not a feisty, angry, explosive conversation maybe you've had some of those before. In the context I minister, this topic comes up on a weekly basis. Follow authors to get new release updates, plus improved recommendations. I've even used these terms a few times already, in case you didn't notice! Greywater is defined as a domestic wastewater that is uncontaminated by direct contact with human excreta. However you feel about homosexuality, the Bible, or whatever, this truth is. Excellent book! And they have stories. Something went wrong. But I also dont know what book I could say that about. I haven't even touched another person. >>Read/Download Kindle Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen?s Guide to Understanding Homosexuality All Edition by Preston Sprinkle. I didn't decide this. I know it sounds weird for a book to be a "conversation" especially since you won't be able to talk back at this book without others thinking you're nuts. With ears. A few feet away. There was a problem loading your book clubs. This is not an "us/them" discussion, but very much a "we" discussion. We'll talk about all this stuff in chapter 4. Sprinkle explains both the culture as well as the Greek for various tricky passages and also explains terminology which many Christians may get confused by. Maybe you've heard it too. What I found was a helpful resource written in a concise and understanding manner that I would feel confident suggesting to my students to read. They work, they play, they eat and sleep. And the confusion continued to dehumanize Jordan limb by limb. His hands were trembling and his face dripped with sweat. Words such as "we" versus "they," and "us" versus "them." But as we'll see, the discussion about homosexuality is much more complex than just a conversation about sex. I asked the librarian to put a book on hold for me. THERE is a pressing need for land law (or, as I would prefer, general property) texts and courses which break the still prevalent Lawsonian myth that land law is an "intensely abstract . Great little section on responding to friends who say they are gay. He mocks them, yells at them, and would love to see the conservative church simply fade out of existence. I appreciate that this book does not encourage any bullying even if it does not align with my views, it's still valuable. She isn't attracted to women, but she chooses to be a lesbian because she vows that because of what her father did, "no man will ever touch me again.". Sometimes the English language demands it. In the chapter Truth and Love I reckon PS draws too sharp a distinction between desire and behaviour, meaning that it presents the former as morally neutral, and the latter as morally significant. Amazon has encountered an error. There are a lot of misconceptions and misunderstandings about the LGBTQ+ topic within the church. Authors: Zondervan, Categories: Young Adult Nonfiction. Living in a Gray World "This is the book i have been waiting for! In the context I minister, this topic comes up on a weekly basis. . Read "Living in a Gray World A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality" by Zondervan available from Rakuten Kobo. They work, they play, they eat and sleep. You can return the item for any reason in new and unused condition: no shipping charges. Reprinted by permission. Thenstill without making eye contacttold me that she would be able to place the book on holdthen asked, Do you know what this book is about? Um, yes. Real people with real stories. Preston Sprinkle has encountered these same questions, and as a theologian and a college professor he has dealt with these issues firsthand. How can, best love people who are same-sex attracted among, us? As a grown adult who can read, I do know what the book is about because I READ the SUBTITLE and description before I put it on hold. I purchased the kindle version of this book to screen it for my teenager, then ordered the paperback for her to read. , File size ", Jordan didn't know how to respond. It really comes across in this book as in everything he does. That person may be a woman on the outside, but they feel like the opposite gender and have the thoughts and emotions of a man, or vice versa. (Some of you don't need to pretend.) calculus remarkably similar to mathematics . Or committed suicide. Our culture is certainly sending messages about this topic to pre-teens and teens! Whose side would you be on? I have read many books and articles on this debate from both sides, but this one is perhaps the most grace-soaked book written by a conservative Christian that I have ever encountered. Unlike Maddie, Justin was raised in a healthy Christian home and became a follower of Christ at a young age. Its actually just full of assumptions of belief, surface level looks at scripture, but ultimately calling people sinful. Preston has held faculty positions at Nottingham University, Cedarville University, and Eternity Bible College. Lifestyle. So let's drop the "lifestyle" lingo. In case you're wondering, Jordan got through that frightful evening with the leaders at his church. In stock. I read "Embodied" first. One thing I've learned from talking to gay people over the years is that words really matter. I have had conversations already that have informed me of the nature of the issue, and it's not like a "born this way" situation. Please try again. This book says that it's for teens, but really it is a wonderfully short resource for any church or individual who finds themselves struggling to understand how to reconcile the Biblical worldview of same sex marriage with the current pressures of today. That worked. Add to basket. Throughout our conversation, you and I are going to ask some hard questions and sort through some tough debates. Lifestyle?! I have mixed feelings about it. We're going to look at the Bible, psychology, and philosophy. Sometimes it's inevitable to use the words "us" or "them." Jordan is still attracted to guys, but he's committed to a life without marriage and sex because he's convinced that same-sex relations are wrong and that he can best serve God through celibacy. I stumbled across this book as I was desperately searching for relevant Christian resources for this topic, and I'm so glad I bought this book! Dan isn't very religious and he often gets frustrated with conservative Christians. Maybe you've heard it too. I'm. This seems weird until you hear her story. Dan is a gay man happily married to another man. 2.50. My point is to be very careful about using these terms and to make sure you don't cause people to feel like some less-than-human "other.". What if your sister is a lesbian, or you sometimes wonder if you might be as well? We are all individual human beings. My friend Jordan was anxiously waiting in his car outside the church office. That is, don't use it as a noun, like, "Hey, look at that homosexual." This book was written for teen readers 15 years ago and older, but I think many adults can benefit from reading this book. Using your mobile phone camera - scan the code below and download the Kindle app. I purchased the kindle version of this book to screen it for my teenager, then ordered the paperback for her to read. Now let me be up front. Eric died lonely, confused, and unloved. -- Francis Chan, pastor and bestselling author of Crazy Love and You and. Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality Edicin Kindle de Zondervan,(Author), Preston Sprinkle (Illustrator) Visita la pgina de Amazon Preston Sprinkle Encuentra todos los libros, lee sobre el autor y ms. He walks through the complexities well and stays true to the Word. Full content visible, double tap to read brief content. Words such as "we" versus "they," and "us" versus "them." I, as a Christian, have always wondered about homosexuality as it is on the top of everyones tongues. And they have stories. So, did I get both Sprinkle books at the same time? He has written several books including People to Be Loved, Living in a Gray World, Charis, and Erasing Hell, which he co-authored with Francis Chan. Reviewed in the United States on October 4, 2022. Jordan is still attracted to guys, but he's committed to a life without marriage and sex because he's convinced that same-sex relations are wrong and that he can best serve God through celibacy. So when people talk about "the gay lifestyle," what they may really mean is gay sex. After all, gay and lesbian people live the same lives as straight people. Sometimes it's inevitable to use the words "us" or "them." It is a real gem. : 21 Conversations from a Historically Christian View, Grace/Truth 2.0: Five More Conversations Every Thoughtful Christian Should Have About Faith, Sexuality & Gender. I know. I've introduced you to Dan, Maddie, Justin, Jordan, Lesli, and Eric because there's something we really need to agree on up front. To have a clear and deep book that is easy for any student to pick up and read is such a gift. Living in a Gray World is also an educational book that parents can read and discuss with their children. As a grown adult who can read, I do know what the book is about because I READ the SUBTITLE and description before I put it on hold.Then she proceeded to put the book on hold under my 12 year old sons account, even though I was asking for the hold.A ton of thoughts hit me. As someone who works with youth, I looked into this book as a reference. Eligible for Return, Refund or Replacement within 30 days of receipt. Each one of these people has some experience with homosexuality. It was a puzzling topic that I definitely needed to do some reading up on: and this ARC gave me a great chance to do so. Justin breaks all the stereotypes of what some people say "makes" people gay. Prestonis also the founder andpresident ofthe Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. It breaks down the Christian doctines in a way that doesn't feel judgmental or hateful. One thing I've learned from talking to gay people over the years is that words really matter, especially in this discussion. Unlike Maddie, Justin was raised in a healthy Christian home and became a follower of Christ at a young age. The great, easy, straight-forward, honest and personal way the author wrote it. Jordan was taken aback. Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard is a poem by Thomas Gray, completed in 1750 and first published in 1751. I feel like I'm attracted to the same sex, but I have no one to talk to. He had spent several years wrestling with his same-sex attraction, though his commitment to the Bible prevented him from acting on it. You've already met my friend Jordan. And I think this book shouldve been much clearer on the gospel message and conversion, rather than assuming it, or even implying (at the end of the book) that the sole distinguishing mark of a Christian is that they love. , Publisher Both gay and straight people have gay and straight friends. ", The leader continued, "You know, Jordan, what God thinks about homosexuals? R. (We'll get into the whole "born with it" debate later as well.) I'd recommend never using the word homosexual when referring to people. Jordan didn't know how to respond. Preston has held faculty positions at Nottingham University, Cedarville University, and Eternity Bible College. Instead, the Bible gives Christians the liberty to make God-glorifying decisions based on their convictions. It really comes across in this book as in everything he does. An honest talk filled with authenticity and love. ask them what they mean by homosexuality before you answer. Preston and his wifeChris, live in Boise, Idaho, with their 3 daugthers and 1 son. Let's begin our conversation by meeting some real people. I hoped that picking up 'Living in a Gray World' may give me something new: a new understanding. Unfortunately, many gay and lesbians feel like this whenever they hear Christians talk about ", gay people" or other such "they/them"-type words. My point is to be very careful about using these terms and to make sure you don't cause people to feel like some less-than-human "other.". Living in a Gray World explores with readers: Homosexuality and other related issues, such as what it means to identify as transgender and intersex What the Bible says about homosexuality How to cultivate a heart for people Dr. Sprinkle shares biblical truth and compassion about this important topic. Ignorance is the greatest weapon of the enemy. Brief content visible, double tap to read full content. I don't want to be attracted to guys. Who are us? It also means you are missing the personal growth that emerges from experiencing the troubles and tribulations our life on earth brings us. Jordan didn't know how to respond. What do you mean? Think about it. , Language Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 4, 2019, Preston Sprinkle is someone who writes and speaks with deep love and authenticity. But I know many gay people who aren't having sex. He ended up forgiving all of them for making him feel less than human. In a world filled with confusing messages and influences that are directly opposed to my beliefs, I was SO glad to find this book. They all have a unique set of experiences, joys and fears, things they hate and love, things that make them smile and other things that make them crazy mad. Reprinted by permission. Millions of people have been psychologically and emotionally slaughtered over something they were called more than twenty years ago. I'm probably more pure than any other guy my age. Throughout high school, Eric was mocked, beat up, and made to feel less than human by Christians and non-Christians. From a few months now I'd been looking for resources on the subject and, as far as I've looked and read, this is one of the most complete books, if not the best. Does this item contain quality or formatting issues? I don't want to be attracted to guys. This seems weird until you hear her story. 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